For almost every guest the whole booking happens in one chat. You write, the office answers, and a short message names the woman who will knock. Body to body Amsterdam on WhatsApp is designed to be simple, but first-time visitors often ask what exactly they should see in that chat, and in what order. This note walks through the confirmation line by line, so you know what a real one looks like before you send your first message. Telegram works the same way for guests who prefer it.
Your first message, and the reply that follows
A useful opening message holds five things: the woman's name, or two names in order; your hotel or street; the time you want her to arrive; the length; and whether you are alone or a couple. With that, the reply can say who is free and confirm the hour. Leave the room number out. Our checklist for booking by name has examples of messages that work first time.
The reply will do one of three things. It confirms the name you asked for; it tells you she is busy and offers a close alternative; or it asks one short question, usually about the length or the entrance. Nothing is booked until you have agreed.
Body to body Amsterdam on WhatsApp: reading the confirmation
A confirmation from the booking line contains, in plain words, the name of the woman, the date and the time, the length, the total for that length, and an arrival window. The window runs forty to sixty minutes from the moment she is confirmed when you want her as soon as possible, or it is set around your chosen time when you book ahead. If the booking carries a deposit, the same message says how much, which is always exactly half of the total, and explains that she sets out once it has cleared.
Which bookings carry that deposit is set out on the cancellation policy page: every first booking from a new guest, anything booked more than twenty-four hours ahead, overnights, pairs of women, sessions of three hours or more, airport hotels and peak dates. A returning guest booking one or two hours with one woman for the same day is the only case paid entirely at the door.
When deposit details arrive, and when they never do
The details for sending a deposit come inside the same chat, after the office has accepted the booking, and from the booking line alone. The deposit can travel four ways, card, Revolut, Wise or crypto, and by no other route. A request for money that arrives before anyone has confirmed a woman, or from a number you did not write to, is not from this house. Do not pay it. Screenshot it, and tell the booking line what you received.
The women themselves never ask for a deposit by message, and they will not give out a personal number.
Guests sometimes wonder why the confirmation is so brief. It is kept short on purpose. A message that names a woman, a time and a figure is easy to read on a lock screen in a meeting, and it gives away nothing to anyone glancing at your phone. If you would like more detail, about her languages, the formats she gives or how long she prefers to book, ask in the chat and the office will answer, but none of that is needed to hold the evening.
The messages in the last hour
Once she is on her way, the chat goes quiet for a while. Shortly before she arrives, she or the office asks for your room number or the exact door. If anything changes on your side, a dinner running over, a different entrance, say so immediately in the same chat. A short message saves her waiting in a lobby. When she knocks, the balance is paid in the room, in cash in any major currency, by card or in crypto.
Keeping the chat private afterwards
Some guests keep the conversation so they can rebook the same woman next time; others delete it on the way to the airport. Both are fine. If you delete it, note her first name somewhere private, because the name is the fastest way back to her. The rates for every length and for one or two women are on each profile page, so there is no need to keep old totals in the chat.
One more line appears in every first confirmation, however it is worded: the house books guests aged twenty-one or over, and nobody younger.